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Jameson's World

A space for family, friends, and the communities that knew him to share photographs, stories, and memories.

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Unapologetically Jay

Jay had a personality entirely his own. He was quirky, fiercely curious, opinionated, and blessed with a sharp wit that could catch you completely off guard. He marched to the beat of his own drum, often seeing the world differently from those around him. He did not always fit in, but that was part of his charm. He was simply Jay, and there was nobody quite like him.

He loved airplanes, tanks, military history, gaming, and ice cream. When something captured his imagination, he immersed himself in it, learning everything he could and eagerly sharing his knowledge with anyone willing to listen.

Naturally reserved, Jay found comfort in familiar routines, especially spending time at his computer gaming and exploring the subjects he loved. That made his decision to embark on a solo trip to New Brunswick, Canada, all the more remarkable. Surprising everyone, he ventured beyond his comfort zone and spent several days exploring the Bay of Fundy. He documented his adventure through videos, enthusiastically narrating the sights and discoveries along the way. It was a rare and wonderful glimpse of Jay stepping into the wider world, embracing an adventure entirely his own.

Celebration of Jameson's Life

Please join us on Friday, November 13, 2026, from 11:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. at the Historic Dubsdread Ballroom in Orlando as we gather to remember Jameson, share stories, and celebrate his life.

Historic Dubsdread Ballroom
549 West Par Street
Orlando, FL 32804

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We would appreciate knowing if you plan to attend so we can get a general idea of how many people to expect.

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There is no RSVP deadline. If your plans change, you can return and submit an updated response using the same email address.

Your response and contact information will be shared only with the family for event planning.

Honoring Jameson's Life

In lieu of flowers, our family invites you to support The Trevor Project, a non-profit organization dedicated to providing crisis intervention, suicide prevention services, advocacy, education, and hope for LGBTQ+ young people.

If there is one thing that comes from our unimaginable loss, it is that Jameson’s life inspires each of us to make this world a kinder, more accepting, and loving place.

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No mayo! A red prohibition sign over the word MAYO, in honor of Jay’s dislike of mayonnaise.

One more thing about Jay: absolutely no mayo.